Compassion is a trait that is very attractive to anyone. However, men are very attracted to women who are capable of showing feelings for other people. Not everyone, particularly all women, possesses this trait. There are a number of women who could be described as very insensitive or self-absorbed and insensitive to other people’s emotions and feelings. What men want from women is someone who is able to show a softer side. They want someone who can understand how they feel and who can also relate to their emotions. A compassionate woman is highly desired by men who are interested in developing a long-term relationship.
Some may wonder why compassion is such an important trait for women to possess. The ability to relate to other people is very important. Compassion allows a person to be able to understand how another person feels and how they relate to them on their level. There are many women who do not possess this trait. There are some women who are oblivious to the needs of others, particularly their men because they may be too busy with their wants and needs. Being self-centered is not a trait that many men find attractive in a woman. Most men want to know that the women they are dating are interested in their well-being and have their best interest at heart.
One of the best characteristics of a compassionate woman is the ability to understand where her man is coming from and not belittle or demean him. There are many men who have stories about demeaning behavior from their girlfriends or wives. This type of behavior can rear its ugly head in various circumstances. Sometimes women may scold their men for tasks that are not done properly or perhaps demeaning comments or behaviors are displayed when a man and woman argue. In general, men don’t like to be embarrassed, ridiculed, and made to feel inferior. A woman who can express her concerns and feelings in a compassionate way will be highly valued by a man. Men want to know that they are dealing with a woman with whom they can fully communicate without having to worry about being demeaned or feeling less than. Contrary to popular belief, what a man wants is to be recognized. Men also want to know that his presence is worthwhile to the women in his life.
To understand what men want, it is very important for women to understand that men have feelings too. While men may not be as emotional as women to some degree, they do have feelings that need to be acknowledged and appreciated. A compassionate woman is able to understand that while her man may play the macho role at times, she still has feelings and emotions that need to be validated. In general, men want a kind woman with whom they can express themselves openly and honestly knowing that their thoughts and opinions will be greatly appreciated.
