So what exactly can a woman do to make sure she gets her lesbian ex-girlfriend back?

Maybe lately you may have felt that no matter what you try, everything you do seems to push your ex girlfriend away more and more, right?

Can you relate to that?

And right now, and perhaps every minute of the day, you are asking yourself the same question: what can you do to get your ex girlfriend back?

I’ve put together some mini tips that are easy to use and most importantly will greatly increase your chances of making sure you get back together with your lost love.

Ok, so obviously, right now, you’re pretty serious about saving your old relationship, right?

That’s what finally got you to this page in the first place!

But unfortunately his current behavior could be hindering any chance he has of getting back together with his ex-girlfriend!

In fact, if you are TOO ANXIOUS about getting your ex girlfriend back, then you are almost certainly behaving inappropriately, which naturally causes your ex girlfriend to drift away.

They may even give him more reasons NOT to come back to you, and we certainly don’t want that, right?

I get that his behavior is just human nature to behave the way he does, we’ve all been there, but honestly, it’s only natural for your ex girlfriend to resist this kind of pressure.

So ultimately you are making her fight against human nature and that is completely useless, it will push her too far, past a point of no return and just make things worse.

One of the biggest mistakes you can make is calling your ex girlfriend too much, I know maybe you miss her a lot, and you think that if you keep calling her she will eventually succumb to your advances, but believe me she won’t.

If you take an honest look at how you’re behaving, do you think you may be calling your ex too much?

Or maybe you’ve gone the constant email route?

Or worse yet, constantly bombarding her with text messages?

All this will do is make your ex girlfriend feel sorry for you.

Now you may think the sympathy vote is better than nothing, but all you’re doing is looking needy in your ex-girlfriend’s eyes.

This is NOT the way to get your ex girlfriend back.

So what can you do to get your ex girlfriend back? You must take a step back!

First you have to stop:

Calling all the time.

Email all the time.

Send text messages all the time.

You need to stop doing any of the above RIGHT NOW!

Instead you want to take a completely surprising approach, the element of surprise will be your new best friend!

You have to start by stopping all contact with your ex girlfriend for a short time.

Don’t panic, she won’t forget you, in fact by ceasing all contact you will really make her think about you even more!

Now, while she’s wondering why you’ve stopped all contact, you’re going to be out doing your thing.

Throughout this period of no contact with your ex-girlfriend, you’ll be focusing on ways you can improve your own personal life.

You will not sulk over the problems in your current relationship.

You will become disciplined and take on some new challenges, nothing too hard, just general things that will improve your life immensely and prevent you from falling back into your old “constant contact with your ex girlfriend” ways.

Now, while you are improving your own life, the other side of the coin will see that your ex girlfriend is surely going through an emotional change in how she feels about you.

Since you’re no longer actively pursuing her, you’ve suddenly become more of a mystery to her, because she’s lost control knowing you’re moving, now she’s not sure what you’re doing or what you’re feeling.

You see that no contact has forced your ex to think about you even more, which is an important step in getting your ex girlfriend back, well done!

By giving your ex girlfriend a real break, you’ve given her the chance to miss you again.

Now you must remember to work with human nature and not against it, human nature will help you get your ex girlfriend back in no time.

So now you know a big mistake to avoid, don’t drown your ex, give him time to miss you wonderfully!

Here’s a quick summary:

Don’t smoke your ex girlfriend.

Make yourself look mysterious.

Play hard to get it (but not too hard!).

and above all let her take the first step.

Very soon you will have your ex girlfriend back in your arms, where she belongs.