Use flirty humor

The first thing to do when building an online swinger dating profile is to create an easy to remember username that is also attractive. Take a look at some other profiles and you will soon notice that many are quite mundane and unoriginal. You need to make yours different in a memorable way so that you stand out from the crowd.

In face-to-face encounters, an irresistible smile and flirtatious joy are the main things that attract swingers. Online communication works in exactly the same way and profiles written with this in mind will be the ones that attract people. Just as no one wants to date or swing with people who are boring and serious most of the time; Nobody wants to read boring and humorless online dating profiles.

Describe the swingers you want to meet

Consider in detail the type of swingers you want to meet and then describe them in your profile. This does not mean that you have to be very picky. The danger of being too selective is that you end up excluding people with whom you might have otherwise enjoyed a good swing. For example, if you are a single man with a profile that specifies that you are only interested in meeting single women, you will miss out on some sensational threesomes with partners who would also have proven to be the most likely source of swinger introduction. party scene for you.

Be especially careful not to make a list of what you don’t like. Profiles that do are a huge disappointment to everyone who reads them and not just the people the list is targeting.

Include your swinger lifestyle experiences

It’s important to include your swinger lifestyle experiences on your online profile, but the worst thing you can do is claim experiences you’ve never had or go for wild exaggerations. Profiles that make up or exaggerate experiences are usually pretty easy to see, but even when created, others will expect you to live up to the experience described, and fictitious claims have a nasty habit of falling apart in face-to-face meetings.

Even if I haven’t had any experience with the lifestyle, it’s better to say so than say nothing. In fact, there are many swingers who are drawn to the idea of ​​having sex with a newbie in their lifestyle. Every swinger was a newbie at some point!

Also includes sexual fantasies

Swingers want to hear about your sexual fantasies as well as your real life experiences, so be sure to include some in your online profile. In addition to ensuring the exclusion of any fantasies that may suggest illegal sexual acts, the only note of caution here is to omit any that may generally be considered unsavory within the swinger lifestyle community.

Read before posting

Before posting a swinger dating profile online, take some time to consider it from the reader’s point of view. Imagine that you are the reader, a person (or partner) who has never met you. Ask yourself how that person could imagine you. Does he seem confident, arrogant, or reserved? Can you imagine a playful, frivolous, boring or serious person? Sound honest, insincere, or unreliable, etc.?

The essential photography

Online profiles that don’t have photos rarely attract anyone’s interest, so it’s essential that you include one. Make sure you get a good photo of the face and body and, at all costs, avoid obscene and unpleasant images. It never ceases to amaze me that many men seem to believe that a close-up image of their penis is the kind of profile picture that will appeal to women. Mockery and ridicule are all those nasty photos you get.

Swinger couple profiles

Swinger couples create joint online profiles. Ideally, project an image of a happy couple that will be fun to be with. It is essential that couples create their profiles together as a couple and it is a great idea to have fun while creating it. Compiling a profile while engaging in sexual foreplay can be a real boost, which is likely to carry over when the profile is subsequently read.

It is a good idea to present adventures in private bedrooms, as well as your experiences as swingers. Write about your relationship with each other and explain how and why you decided to enter the swinger lifestyle. This is exactly what other couples want to read when looking for swing partners.

As with singles, it is essential that the profiles of swinger couples include photos and, ideally, these should be of both. If only one photograph of the couple is included, make sure it is one of the female couple. Couple profiles showing a photograph of the male partner only never attract a lot of positive responses. Most people who see such a profile will come to the conclusion that if the woman exists, she is likely to be a passive or involuntary participant in the swinger relationship.

A special note for single men

Single men need to understand that most women (whether single or couples) who use swinger dating sites crave adventure and excitement. Self-confidence, masculinity, humor mixed with a certain degree of mystery are the type of qualities that the male profile needs to project to satisfy this desire. Giving the impression of being the nice guy they might meet every day is not the best way to attract such women.

Sometimes men using swinger dating sites may need to remind themselves that they are not looking for romance or conventional dating, long-term relationships. If your profile ends up suggesting this, you may not get much of a response. On the other hand, it’s also important not to emphasize the purely sexual side of things to the point where the profile sounds like a crude, immature rant.

Communicate your sex appeal in the most natural way possible and avoid bragging about incredible sexual stamina. Most women are more likely to view a long-acting repeater as a potential source of vaginal pain than a carrier of ecstatic pleasure.

Online Profiles For Women Swinger Lifestyle

Most of what has been said above applies in one way or another to online profiles of single women. The main additional point to note is that, as a single woman, your photo will be the first thing other swingers will look at. Therefore, it is essential that you do it well. Never use an old photo and don’t be afraid of overtly sexual, sour, or even explicit sexual shots. You’re posing for swinger lifestyle contacts, not romantic LTRs! Dress (or strip) to thrill and just draw the line in those silly gyno close-ups sometimes seen on online swingers, female profiles.