If deep down you feel that you are “broken” and that if people knew your “real you” they would reject you, then no external game will help you. Sure, you can memorize openers, conversational tactics, and other types of tricks and techniques to temporarily boost your confidence enough that some women go to bed, but it won’t last.

On the other hand, if you have an incredibly strong inner game and a strong set of core beliefs, nothing can stop you. What are these core beliefs and how can you develop them? Keep reading.

The first belief is that it benefits other people. After interacting with people, they are better because of you. If you believe this, it will be easy to reach out and engage people in a conversation. In addition, you will believe that anyone who enters a relationship with you will be better off.

This will make you more of a qualifier than someone who always seeks approval from others. Other people will seek your approval.

How do you develop this belief? You can do it in two ways. Inside out and outside in.

Develop from the inside out by creating some short, powerful affirmations that reflect this belief. As you repeat these statements, think about times in the past when you helped other people. Where people looked at you, smiled and said “thank you”.

You can develop it on the outside by putting yourself in situations where you can help people or make them feel better because they interacted with you. Give people honest compliments. Engage people in conversations and discover interesting things about them. People love to talk about themselves, so give them a chance.

The second fundamental belief is that you can handle uncertainty. You feel comfortable in unfamiliar situations. You don’t need a rigid set of rules to survive. Practice this as above, from the inside and from the outside.

Remember times in your past when you figured things out on your own. Give yourself credit for thinking independently and creating solutions on your own.

Fortunately, by talking to people, you will also strengthen this belief. Since you never know what will happen when you start talking to strangers, you will develop a strong collection of experiences that show you can handle anything.

The more you practice doing this, inside out and outside in, the faster you will become a natural seducer. Very soon people will approach you wherever you go, and you will have the world eating out of the palm of your hand.