Let’s be clear on one thing: a chastity spouse is a very different proposition from a chastity slave. But unfortunately, for men and particularly women seeking unbiased, accurate and sensitive advice on male chastity, more often than not they are bombarded with inaccurate and largely fanciful stories of bondage and orgasm denial that just don’t hold up. critical scrutiny.

Now, you could say that there is nothing wrong with people posting their fantasies on forums and blogs as they have the right to free speech and no harm is being done. This is true. However, the same freedom of expression means that I and other women and men who truly embrace the male chastity lifestyle have the right to point out the inconsistencies and outright inaccuracies in what passes for “advice” on this subject.

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Not all chastity husbands want to submit to their wife as a chastity slave

Many men, like my husband, John, want to give up control of just this small part of their lives: that is, they just want to give their wives control of their orgasms. Categorically, it doesn’t necessarily mean that they want to be feminized, cheated on, abused, or generally treated as second-class citizens.

Why is this so important?

Because in general, men are the ones to push a male chastity lifestyle, certainly in the beginning, and often the first thing his wife discovers on the subject is the hype and nonsense that makes male chastity tantamount to chastity. male bondage. And it just isn’t. In my experience, having a chaste husband is a delicious and pleasurable enhancement to our lives, a fun and exciting sexual game that plays out over a period of days, weeks, months, and ultimately years.

A chastity slave, on the other hand, extends the concept of control to other areas of your life.

Depending on the level of “bondage” you both agree to, this can be as simple as a bedroom game or an entire lifestyle where he does what he’s told all the time or woe is he! I personally wouldn’t want that, and from what I can tell from my research, most women aren’t introduced to the male chastity lifestyle by their men either.

On the other side of the coin, most women do not find submissive men attractive. Some do. Most don’t. And some women revel in domination and “power,” but then again, most of us don’t. This is not to say that we don’t enjoy the power of our femininity: I think most women will confess that they love knowing how their sexual allure can send men wild.

But that’s a long, long way from wanting to be a “dominant woman.” The crucial difference is that a chaste husband wants to submit to her will, while a chaste slave wants to submit to her will. The former is likely to be attractive to most women because it doesn’t mean that if she adopts the lifestyle of male chastity, her man has to become subservient to her.

He can, like my husband, remain strong and confident and sexy and still have that little vulnerability exactly where we want it: his desire for you as a woman.

To sum up

If you are a woman whose man has confessed his desire to embrace the male chastity lifestyle and become your chastity husband, don’t be intimidated by forums and hype into thinking he wants to become your chastity slave. chastity.

Because it’s not necessarily so, it doesn’t have to be so, and the fact is that most women and men would be happy if it weren’t.

So if you want to bring some life and passion back into your relationship, and have him eager to help you and pamper you, just like he did in the old days, but without him being a sissy doormat, then…