You can deeply love your wife…

Spending the rest of your life with her may be your greatest wish…

But, if you have a certain characteristic, you can be sure that two things will happen:

1. Your wife will withdraw emotionally first.

2. His wife will leave him for another partner (who he has already found or will find)

Would you like to know what this feature is so you can avoid it? Yes?

Here it is… Wait… Maybe you’d better find out for yourself in the following…

Do you often wonder what your wife’s true feelings are toward you?

Do you always ask him if he loves you?

And, if she says she loves you, do you often doubt that she really means it in her heart?

What about the phone calls or letters you receive? Is it really important for you to know whose they are and what was said?

Do you secretly wonder if your wife is really committed and faithful to you?

Are you one of those who likes your wife to reassure you that everything in your marital relationship is okay?

Perhaps you want constant confirmation from your wife that she will always be with you and will never leave you?

And, if something goes wrong in the marriage relationship, do you automatically start to wonder if it’s over and think there’s no hope?

Stop! Have you figured out what the feature is?

Here it is in a word…

UNSAFETY

And, the bad news is that insecurity never runs on its own…it always drags along its close cousins ​​CONTROLLING, NEGATIVITY and SUSPICION.

The insecure man tries to “control” his wife, though he rarely realizes it, even when he interprets everything about her with “suspicion” and injects “negativity” into everything he does.

That is why I can affirm that the wife of an insecure man will eventually disconnect emotionally, after which he will physically leave the marriage relationship.

It’s a fact… the insecure man IS losing his wife. The only question is how long it will be before he leaves.

You see, a husband’s continued insecurity wears his wife down. She grates on his nerves. He drains her emotionally.

See, with all the bombardments in life, one has to work to stay emotionally healthy. But, when you also have to be an “emotional support system” for someone else, it quickly becomes too… too tiring.

At the beginning of the relationship, even if the wife finds it annoying that her husband needs constant reassurances, she will go ahead and give it to him. But, she quickly reaches a state where she has given all her comfort and has no comfort left for herself.

Worse still, she is not getting the peace of mind she craves from her husband… She is always giving peace of mind but never getting anything in return.

This wife quickly tires of constantly having to reassure an insecure husband. She gets tired of giving. She gets tired of trying.

On the one hand, she DREAMS of being with a man who makes her feel alive and animated. On the other hand, she LIVES with a husband whose persistent insecurity leaves her feeling drained and drained.

And so a wife who is married to an insecure man goes through a progression:

1. She begins to see her husband as UNATTRACTIVE. (And the husband begins to complain that his wife’s sexual desire is declining.)

2. She progresses to resent her husband’s WEAKNESS. (And the husband becomes even more unhappy because his wife hardly has sex anymore.)

3. Eventually, she gets to the stage where she literally HATES her husband. (And the husband is really unhappy now because he and his wife hardly ever have sex again.)

These three steps are the “emotional control” phase of the wife that I referred to at the beginning.

And, once you’ve completed this “exit” process, you’re gone. She will leave as a matter of SELF PRESERVATION, as a matter of protecting her sanity, dignity and peace of mind.

Simply put, he is a foolish man who expects his wife to understand him, support him, and be left tormented by his insecurity.

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Copyright 2008, article by Calle Zorro from NymphomaniacWife.com