What do we call this?

A family with the acceptance of the supposed born again brother gave a verdict that;

No pregnancy, no marriage ritual!

Reason: the older brother’s wife is still not pregnant after years of marriage and they don’t want it to happen again.

And the sister is contemplating doing the “doing” so that the brother does not run away.

If you find yourself in this kind of situation, dear sister, you have not yet found the man whose rib was missing.

If after months of waiting you get pregnant despite several “spills” and the thing refuses to come, what will happen? He leaves you for another abi! Yoruba will say “ti e gbe”.

You can’t make fun of God … you don’t start your marriage on the premise of testing the waters before diving in and expecting a smooth ride.

When His word says that marriage should be honorable for all and the bed spotless, why do you want to disobey?

Disobedience is compared to the sin of witchcraft.

Do you think God didn’t know that some people could experience delays in conception?

He knew, but he expected us to exercise FAITH. Giving your life to Jesus is by faith.

The fact that Bro had the mouth to speak and encourage the act should have told you that he was not born; by their fruit (Love, Joy, Peace, Patience, Goodness, Goodness, Fidelity, Meekness, Self-control) you will know them.

For those who have yielded to this evil verdict of their in-laws, it is better to retrace their steps towards God and beg for mercy now than to enter that marriage without the blessing of their Father in heaven.

Brother, why worry, why sin against God? Why collude with his family to unnecessarily burden our dear sister?

God already assured you in Psalm 128: 3 that your wife would be like a fruitful vine in the VERY HEART of YOUR HOUSE.

Lastly, sisters, please value yourself very much.

Its price is well above rubies.

If you want to go because you refuse to succumb, that’s fine. It’s a good way to get rid of bad junk!

The fact that you are old should not push you to sin against God; He does not forget his daughters. The Bible says that He accommodates the lonely in families.

Your prince charming is here!

God is not mocked! Please note this