Q: Do you really love me? Is this FINALLY going to be the “one”? How do I know if this is the man … and the relationship I’ve been waiting for, or is it just going to end in disappointment, heartbreak, or dubious abandonment that I didn’t see coming? Is there a REAL way to know if a man is right for me and really feels the same way I do, BEFORE I commit to mind, body, and soul?

And if so … HOW? (And where do I get it?) Do any of these questions sound familiar? In this article we’re going to take a quick and easy look at how to tell if he REALLY loves you, using a very simple “checklist” that most emotional intuitives, empaths, and heart-based relationship coaches use. to identify karmic connection, true love and life partners that last forever. Are you curious to know more? Read on as we take a closer look below.

1 – Do we share the same long-term values?

This is critical for ANY relationship to work in the long run … and, unfortunately, it’s the easiest thing to overlook at first. The truth is, it’s a cliche to say … but people don’t really change, no matter how much you think they can, or will, if given the right opportunity. If it is NOT “built” with the same “things” as you, and does not feel like YOU with the things that are most important, it can pretend for a while, but in the end, it is doomed. .

2 – Is there an intuitive energy and understanding between us?

I know this is controversial and confusing for women who HAVE NOT experienced it, but the truth is that you can FEEL true love, in a way that makes you feel alive inside. There is an indescribable feeling that comes with being loved and accepted unconditionally, and when it happens, you KNOW it. It may not be immediately obvious, of course, and it takes a little time to develop, but when you KNOW that you are loved, 100% … there is an energy and intuition that develops between two people that is impossible to break. Whether you call it a KARMIC connection like I do, or some kind of “quantum energy” that connects people in emotionally intense relationships, it’s a great feeling that each of us deserves to encounter.

3 – Does the relationship feel effortless?

All relationships are work, but when you find your spiritual soulmate … it should feel like EASY work. How does yours feel? Effortless, easy, and intense? Or do you like to lift heavy objects and need care to survive? It takes too much effort … the bad news is it’s probably NOT the one.

4 – Do you feel EMPOWERED to be the best, the boldest and the BRIGHTEST of yourself?

A true spiritual association does not diminish you, or force you to settle down, or make sacrifices that make you SMALLER. Your light should burn as bright as his … and any relationship or romance that causes you to squeeze a smaller version of yourself into the world is NOT one that allows you to live a life of passion and purpose. (that each of us is BORN to build)

5 – Are you HAPPY … deep down where does it count?

It amazes me how many women never stop to think about this last point. Love equals happiness. Period. If you are not feeling encouraged and happy with your most important relationship, what are you missing? The truth is, if you don’t feel alive, awake, and ecstatically in love with the man you are with right now, he is most likely NOT the man for you. And the sooner you wake up to that reality, the sooner you will find yourself in the arms of who it is.