Let’s start with the base. “What do women have in common with fingerprints?” I’ll tell you: each has their own individual imprint on her. There are probably many similar fingerprints, but no copies! The same with sexuality and erogenous zones: each woman has her own individual preferences, fantasies and zones. What applies to one woman may be very different for another. What one likes, the other finds terrible. You can see what I mean: I can give you a lot for most women. In the end, your empathy is what men always need. Please don’t use everything blindly!

Let’s take a quick look at one of the key differences between male and female sexuality: if your sexual desire (as a man) were a vehicle, it would rather be everything, it would be a Ferrari. From zero to hundreds in a few seconds. It is for this reason that I have never heard of a man complaining when a woman starts having sex at full speed with no questions asked. We men can do it. We are reaching working temperature in a very short time. For women, however, the situation is quite different: women’s passion is more like a freight train. It moves away slowly and takes a long time to really start moving. But when the train is moving, there really is unstoppable power to it.

Woman’s erogenous zone #1

Okay, you’ve waited long enough. Let’s start with the first erogenous zone: the inner thighs! We can’t escape the inner thighs because: This is an almost unmistakable hit for just about every woman whose arousal she’d like to turn up. Women (and men) are very sensitive to inner thighs. And they’re also near the epicenter of female lust (exactly, I mean the vagina). So what you can do: Slide your hands or fingers slowly at knee height almost to the vagina and subject the entire interior to deep caresses. Women love to be caressed here. And the fact that you always reduce your movements to the center of pleasure, but never touch them there, is very likely to cause great tension and anticipation. By the way, the same principle can be implemented just as well with the tongue and lips. Over and over from outside to inside, and then just in front of the vagina, stop and start outside again.

Erogenous Zone #2

Let’s go a step further and get a little closer to the center of female lust. This is the area that mistakenly gets too little attention from most men: the labia are incredibly erogenous. A woman doesn’t just have a lot of nerve endings there. The feet of the clitoris also run along the inside of the labia. And there is one more advantage of lips: you are very, very close to the place where you feel good. It means: if you’re dealing with lips, you’re not only making your partner feel incredibly good, you’re also raising their expectations for more. So you can literally feel what will happen when you move your fingers, tongue, or the outer parts of the penis. This is how you create sexual tension in her. Sexual tension is the cornerstone of almost every woman’s desire. You can be incredibly stimulating for your lips by licking them up and down. Also, it’s especially useful for foreplay, mentally moving your lips up and down with two fingers. BTW: I intentionally omit the vagina and clitoris as erogenous zones (simply because I’d like to focus on a few other areas).

Area #3:

Many men think too mechanically. You overthink what pressure will be best, whether to turn your nipples clockwise or counterclockwise, and when is the right time to finally have sex. However, you will lose all your presence when making love. And this is exactly what makes playing with the erogenous zones so special for women. When you are with your partner, his body and its zones are waiting for your full attention, lust and masculine presence. Feel the softness of her hair between your fingers, feel and enjoy her delicate skin around her neck. Enjoy the feel of her breasts in your hands and enjoy her reaction to what you do to her. To be there! To be! With all your conscience. And let go of analytical thoughts. That’s what women are about, especially when they have sex.

Erogenous Zone #4

Neck. I don’t think I’ve ever met a single woman who didn’t find the touch of her neck incredibly exciting. You can optimally touch your mouth here. Gently kiss your partner’s neck and collarbone or over your shoulder blades. If you’re in a good mood, you can also goof around. Sucking, even a light bite, is usually very desirable, when the level of pleasure has already increased. Alternatively, you can caress your partner’s neck with your hands during an intense kiss, or let her fingers gently (or forcefully) slide down your neck. Warning: and here, of course, the famous and notorious neck massage. Your wife is unlikely to say no. Neck massage doesn’t have to be sexy, but it often is. Because women love, above all, the sensitive touch on the neck (the exceptions confirm the rule as always).

Erogenous Zone #5

Inside the forearm, I’m talking about the part of the forearm where the skin is very thin, including the elbow. By the way: thin skin is almost always very susceptible to small kisses and slow caresses with the fingertips (even thorough combing). And the inside of the forearm is mistakenly forgotten! Just take some time for you and your goddess and gently stroke your fingertips from your wrists to your elbows (or further, if necessary) and back again. You may both be surprised at how good it really feels.