own your ignorance

Dear Customer,

I’ve been on dating sites and paid thousands of dollars trying to find the perfect guy and still come up empty handed. None of them look like the photos of him and the ones I get fixed through agencies are just misleading or broken. Please help.

Kathleen
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Dear Kathleen

I know this sounds harsh, but take responsibility for finding the love of your life! Don’t expect someone else to find it for you! Instead, learn ways in which you can recognize it yourself. Come understand how this world of wonders works. Why do you prefer salty foods to sweets or are you attracted to gold over silver? Why do the big blue eyes melt you and the brown ones go unnoticed? Why do you prefer the ocean to the forest and a hotel room to camping under the stars? Why does one guy make your heart sing and another doesn’t? You know why? Find out why? Not knowing is a sign of ignorance and assigning the task of tackling the MOST important selection of your life to a stranger is crazy! Still, I’ve chosen to soften my answer by simply saying that he’s not crazy… just misinformed. Look for answers. They are out there. Once you understand polarity, alchemy, energy and appetite… nothing can stop you from having the MOST amazing love experience of your life… but first YOU must take charge of your love life.

Too many expectations are placed on agencies and sites to get positive results. They are there to provide a focused group of interest. Most insist that you inform yourself and be careful when making decisions. Attributing responsibility to them is ridiculous. A good agency will provide you with information and education so that when you meet you have some ideas to work with. If you’re paying thousands of dollars to an agency to set you up with three dates and no prerequisites for selection other than a few common interests… RUN! When you pay for a cover at a local club or put a donation in the church basket, do you expect that environment or event to produce a loving experience for you just because there are other singles there? I do not think. The experience we have is what we do and it rarely means anything if we have no idea what we are getting into. The same is true for a relationship event. What we have lost in the last few thousand years is our ability to access our own common sense. “Sense” being the key word. We know that we can already feel, see or hear what is convenient for us because of the noise around us. Once we regain control of our sensitivity or senses, we become powerful love magnets simply because we know which direction to go and WHY we are moving in that direction. Imagine being IN LOVE and knowing why and how you got there? This is where and when you come to revel in the POWER of LOVE.

Thoughtfully,
Zannah

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