If you are one of the millions of guys who believe that you cannot get a girlfriend because of some aspect of your physical appearance, then this article is for you. You have probably carried the weight of this burden for a long time. You’ve watched your friends get girls, and you’ve probably established the belief that, because of your appearance, having a woman in your life is simply not your “destiny.”
If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. In fact, you’d be surprised how many men share the same suffering. Statistics say that 20% of the guys get 80% of the girls. Some would believe that this only further supports the notion that physical appearance is important and that unattractive people are destined to live a life of loneliness and sadness. But as a man who struggled with his own limitations when it came to women, I can tell you that there is hope. The truth is that being unattractive in some way can play to your great advantage in attracting girls. Impossible you say? Well, I tell you it’s not!
The thing to realize is that when it comes to women, looks don’t matter that much. I know it sounds like a lie, but I tell you it’s the truth. Yes, appearances will help a handsome guy get his foot in the door, but they’ll only get him so far. Women are attracted to VALUE, nothing more and nothing less. If you can show a woman that you have great value, she will be attracted to you no matter what you look like or what disabilities you have. I’ve seen midgets, cripples, and even legless guys pulling hot chicks. And the only difference between you and them is that they didn’t think the same way you did. They believed that they had something to offer their girls, and consequently they reflected that belief in everything they thought, did, and said.
Here’s how you do it: Imagine that women have the ability to see right through you. They can look at you and immediately tell what is going on inside of you. They can see your beliefs through your body language, your insecurities from the way your eyes roll, and even your level of self-esteem just from the tone of your voice. The funny thing is, most women don’t know how they know, they just know. So when a man can present these attractive qualities, he will literally become the most handsome man she has ever seen, and regardless of any physical limitations he may have, women will sleep with him.
What’s more, when you can show women that you have high self-esteem despite being fat, ugly, or having a disability, they’ll actually be MORE attracted to you than a good-looking guy with the same level of self-esteem. Why? Because just like the peacock that survives despite the limitations of its enormous tail, they will see that you have the inner strength to overcome societal definitions of attractive and unattractive and have high self-esteem despite it. This is EXTREMELY attractive to women, and this is why some really ugly guys have some of the hottest girls out there. It is about your belief system.
To learn how to change your beliefs, you will need to do some serious work. I’m not going to sit here and lie to you and tell you it’s going to be easy; it won’t. But what I will tell you is that it is possible. With the serious motivation of attracting hot girls, I have seen guys rise from the deepest depths to become seduction machines. You will need to work on the way you talk to yourself, your body language, your internal belief systems, and most of all, your self-esteem.
