A hunch probably won’t cut it because even psychics won’t be able to know for sure if your wife is cheating on you or just having a bad day. But if you must (and must) know for sure before making any drastic decisions regarding your marriage, you will first need to determine whether your hunch is correct. Here are 8 ways you can catch a cheating wife without relying on your sixth sense:
Check their phone records.
If you’ve been having an affair with your cell phone, chances are you’ve called the other guy. Look for strange numbers that tend to repeat themselves. But be careful. These numbers can belong to any of your friends, relatives or colleagues. Worse still, they might even be your boss. ‘ Be careful not to embarrass yourself or cause any uncomfortable incidents.
Surprise her at the office or at home.
If you say you’re working overtime, then you should be at the office, right? Why not drop by once and bring your favorite donut, pasta, or flowers? If you suspect you’re bringing your lover home, come home early, surprisingly early, and put her on it.
Check your internet usage.
About 30% of the people who use the Internet to search for personal information are married. Although most of them are men, there are also those who actively seek who are married women.
You can check your wife’s internet usage history, but if you’re smart enough to erase it, try a sneaky device like a keylogger and see what she’s been up to lately.
Catch her while she sleeps.
If she’s a sleepyhead, she may be able to get shards from time to time. But be careful. Dreams have a strange way of skewing things. If you were saying Kevin’s name last night, you might be having one of those Kevin Bacon dreams again which, all things considered, is really harmless.
Use a reverse number lookup service.
You will have to pay a phone book company for this, but this will help determine where those mysterious phone calls (and bills) are going. Although this can be effective in some cases, it may not always work, especially if the phone number is not listed. With this method, only a publicly listed number can be traced, which means you probably won’t find someone whose cell phone number appeared on your phone bill.
Follow her.
There are laws about stalking, but if there is an incident that you think needs your action, please do so. Just be prepared for what you can find.
Check your wife’s E-Pass record.
Your wife’s E-Pass record can be a good source of proof if she has been cheating on you. If you meet a lover elsewhere and have to go through a toll booth to get there, you can use your E-Pass Record against them.
However, there is a catch. In order to obtain these records, they must be subpoenaed, which means that in case of divorce proceedings, they will be useful.
If all else fails …
Hire a private detective. The TV show ‘Cheaters’ has opened up to many engaged and married couples the possibilities that hidden cameras and video surveillance present in the fight to preserve the integrity of a relationship and save someone’s pride (in some way). If you suspect your wife is cheating on you and are too smart to get caught, it’s probably time to leave the matter to the professionals.
However, it will cost you. Private detectives charge by the hour, and often the surveillance can take a while before enough evidence is collected to convince you that you have an unfaithful wife. To catch it, a detective may need several days or several weeks to produce video, audio or photographic evidence.
