Every day we see single Christian men. There are always eligible singles looking for their soul mates. For every Christian man there is a truly special woman for him and we each have our own preferences.
The general principles of the art of seduction still apply regardless of race, color, creed, or religion, but don’t overdo it. If the rooster doesn’t want to peck, leave it alone. Don’t impose yourself on others and be proud of yourself. The golden rule still applies and I can quote “Don’t do to others what you don’t want them to do to you”. Love will surely come to you if you are patient. There are many single Christian men looking for the same thing. You sure don’t want to be like the supporting actress in the movie “Fatal Attraction.” Give yourself some respect. Otherwise, you will be vain and bitter. Show some skin and don’t be too old fashioned as single Christian men are also human beings with sexual urges and desires. However, wear elegant, decent, and respectable clothing that reflects your Christian upbringing and personality. Surely you don’t want your love target to be drooling goggle-eyed all night, unless you want to awaken the beast in him and turn your date into a “one night stand”. Find the right balance and let that beautiful personality shine through; Radiate that energy with your genuine smile. Be nice, feel good inside and be sexy but respectable at the same time. Think positive and attract good thoughts. And when you go out on dates, just wear a little perfume, a touch here and there to enhance that charisma in you. Do not pour the entire bottle on yourself and your clothing unless you want to promote the product. Be flexible, but cautious.
Study your potential candidates, analyze them, and ask yourself if this is the “real person” you’ve been looking for and not just a figment of your imagination. Is he the right Christian single man for me? Does he love me or does he want me? These are two different states of desire that women should be aware of about men in general and single Christian men are no exception. For real and lasting love relationships to last, both of you have to exist. Lacking one would not make the relationship successful. Create a romantic atmosphere: a candlelight dinner, a walk in the park, walking in the rain sharing an umbrella, an informal meeting in an elevator or restaurant, and much more. Be yourself and don’t pretend affection. Be frank, direct but at the same time cautious with your words, as it could hurt the other person. Be spontaneous like the sea breeze or the water flowing from the waterfalls, refreshing, tempting, exciting. Listen to the latest news to stay informed on current affairs to have topics to discuss, participate in social activities to make yourself visible. Learn to flirt and release that power of attraction that you carry inside. It’s okay, we are not priests and nuns, we are social beings. We long to touch and be touched spiritually, emotionally, intellectually, and physically.
Fear not, but pray about it. Plan it out and God will guide you through it. So for all the nice lonely ladies out there looking for love, companionship and happiness, the world is teeming with good single Christian men. You just have to identify them and know them. Good luck!
