Getting your ex back is always a mystery. No matter how hard you try, you seem to push them further and further. Well, drop what you’re doing and read my advice first: you too can get your ex back like I did!

The first rule of thumb to get your ex back is to stop all contact with your ex immediately. Of course, this is not going to be easy and you may be wondering how it works, but believe me, it works! Your emotions will tell you to call your ex and explain how sorry you are, but nobody likes someone who’s too nice, so he stops what you’re doing right now!

It is important that you keep your emotions to yourself and keep your distance from your ex. Create some mystery in your ex’s mind. If you can’t resist, send them one last message thanking them for a great time together and that you’re okay with the breakup and hope they stay friends.

If you want to get your ex back, it’s important that you don’t stay at home moping around doing nothing. You have to keep your mind busy and do the things you like. Going out with friends, visiting your family, walking your dog are just some of the things you could be doing.

You have to let it be known that you are happy and that you are having a good time. So maybe put statuses on Facebook about how happy you are or what you’ve been up to. Your ex will hate this, especially since you don’t talk to him. They will be thinking that they should be the ones you spend time with and not them. They are jealous!

This jealousy will cause them to contact you. They will ask you questions about what you have been doing and who you spend time with. Don’t make them jealous though, as this could backfire and drive them further apart. Just be honest and you will never know that you could get your ex back faster than you expected!