“The truth is that our best moments are most likely to occur when we feel deeply uncomfortable, unhappy or dissatisfied. Because only in those moments, driven by our discomfort, are we likely to break out of our ruts and start looking for different paths or answers. truer”. -a stranger
Have you ever considered that what is going on inside your mind may be preventing you from finding true love? Mastering your psychology may be one of the most powerful things you can do to increase your chance of finding real, true, and lasting love.
You may think that you are protecting yourself from getting hurt with the defense mechanisms that you have put in place. However, it is more likely that she is getting in the way of true love due to her reluctance to remain vulnerable.
The truth is that there is no way to remain open-hearted and willing to love without risk. Love requires risk! However, it can be scary to consider the possibility of disappointment or heartbreak.
There are three types of thoughts that most often plague single women. Sometimes you may be aware of these thoughts, but they can also be subconscious. In either case, they may be sabotaging your progress toward an ideal relationship.
*Fear it can be a huge impediment to love because it can literally stop you in your tracks. It can make you hesitate to take any risk and it can lower your confidence and faith. Do you notice fearful thoughts when you consider a relationship or marriage? It is important to differentiate between real and imagined fears. Take wise action based on faith instead of fear.
*fantasies it can also be an enemy to a wonderful relationship. Do you think that the right man will come into your life without effort or energy on your part? Do you think you will only be happy when you have a partner? The truth is that you are responsible for your own decisions and your own happiness. By taking control of your own life, you have the power to create a life that you truly love. You can build a good life for yourself and you are more likely to attract someone amazing. Together, as partners, you can share life’s ups and downs as they come.
* falsehoods It’s the lies you can hear in your head. These are depressing and discouraging beliefs that undermine your hope and strength. The frightening thing about these beliefs is that if you allow them to persist, you can begin to believe that they are true. Untruths are mean and critical thoughts you have about yourself or others. They undermine your ability to trust and make you doubt your own worth or the sincerity of others. It’s important to challenge these thoughts when they arise and whenever possible replace them with something more positive.
As you make the effort to pay attention to what’s going on in your mind, you may be able to identify and remove some of your biggest obstacles to love. Do not let your fears, fantasies or falsehoods prevent you from having the love, joy and satisfaction you seek.
